Making Peace With Our Past
Rectifying the past, sorting out the details, and forging the difficult differences floating between our thoughts — this is what I’ve been working on lately.
People are tired. Exhausted by a world more unpredictable than anything we've seen before.
Tired of politicians. Tired of politics.
I get it.
But can we afford to look away?
Our Brokenness is Not Our Defeat
Everyone —people, countries, cultures —has a past.
Each has its own struggles to survive, to thrive, to move forward.
There’s nothing wrong with brokenness; it’s simply the story of being human as we try to make things better.
Ignoring the past doesn’t erase it —it often allows the "bad" to repeat itself.
We have to make peace with our past, visiting it like an old friend.
How Do We Make Peace?
We already know how.
We forgive.
We learn.
We grow.
Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting —it's about healing.
Better people build better lives, better communities, and a better future.
This is who we are.
Learning Through the Messy Parts
Living without apology doesn’t mean living without responsibility.
Real life is messy.
Real practice happens in the moments when we stumble, when our humanness gets in the way.
I'm no exception.
I get things wrong.
But I’m willing to grow.
To show the unpolished sides.
It's where the real practice happens —where humanness tests us and teaches us.
Humanity Is Our Common Ground
Our differences are not our downfall —they are our strength.
Each unique perspective brings something valuable to the table.
Together, we have all the answers.
Isolated, we miss out.
Life is Like the Weather
Good and bad surprises are part of the deal.
You plan a beach day under blue skies —and a thunderstorm sends you running for shelter.
We adapt.
It’s in our nature.
Still, most of us resist change.
Our brains are wired to predict —and when things shift, panic is often our first instinct.
That instinct was designed to keep us safe —but it can also keep us small.
How Do We Stop Predicting Panic?
Simple: stop shopping!
(Just kidding. Sort of.)
Shopping can be a distraction from the deeper things we need to face.
The better medicine?
Get Out Into Nature
Nature clears the mind.
It challenges our perceptions.
It softens our judgments.
It restores our spirit.
Even a few minutes sitting in a park can be the catalyst for fresh ideas.
Redefining "Good"
What we think is good isn't always what keeps us happy, healthy, or free.
We have to be willing to challenge not just others’ beliefs —but our own.
Be Honest
Honesty strengthens relationships.
It’s better to face hard truths early than regret later what could have been handled better with open communication.
I'd rather someone be upfront with me —wouldn't you?
Your Voice Matters
“Your voice matters. Whether it’s a whisper or a song, a question or a story, your words can shape the world around you. Speak up for kindness. Stand up for what’s right. Share your truth, even if it trembles as it leaves your lips. The world doesn’t need more echoes —it needs your uniqueness. Let it out boldly and beautifully.”
— Notes to a Little Bird: Reclaiming Civil Society
Connect the Dots
You don’t need anyone to tell you how to live —you already know.
But as humans, we often wander the same crooked path a thousand times until new information wakes us up.
Gather accurate information.
Research.
Find trusted voices rooted in authenticity, not just noise.
When we connect the dots, we can build the future we deserve.
Participation Is Power
We have a right —and an honor —to participate.
Be adaptable.
Be cooperative.
Be compassionate.
Silence allows chaos to rise.
Community helps us grow.
Change takes time.
Possibility takes listening.
Politics, People, and Possibility
Politics isn’t just blue, green, purple, or red — it's human.
It's the conversations we have about the world we want to create.
How would you like the world to be?
Dream it.
Talk about it.
Write it down.
And listen to others' dreams too.
Together, we create what’s truly great.
Recap:
✅ Get out in nature.
✅ Stop shopping (for the wrong reasons).
✅ Be honest.
✅ Connect the dots.
Final Thought
You are loved.
You are needed.
Your voice —trembling, powerful, true —is a light in the world.
I see you in all your magnificence.
I embrace you.
I believe in the incredible power we hold when we meet each other with open, compassionate hearts.
Life is so important.
Let’s live it fully.
❤️ Richard